I'm a transman and I was looking for a realistic dildo to use with my partners that wouldn't cost me a fortune. After some browsing, I decided Sexflesh would be the most realistic for the price. My reasons for picking the Rebellious Ryan are mostly based on the appearance, I just happen to like the way it looks. Also, the measurements didn't seem too massive to feel realistic to me. My first impression was "Damn, this thing is huge." Maybe I just have small hands, but if this thing was any larger I wouldn't be able to wrap my hand around it. I read the size measurements before ordering and everything, and even whipped out a tape measure to get a better idea of what I was getting into, but that doesn't really compare to actually seeing it. I measured it out of personal curiosity, and those numbers are at the bottom of this review. This dildo seems to be made of high quality material, the texture of it is nice and very realistic. It's pretty weighty too. The head is significantly softer than the rest of the cock, and seems to have a pretty nice taper to give you time to adjust to the size. Past the head, the shaft is much harder. There is an outer layer that is fairly soft to the touch, but if you squeeze it a little you'll feel a much firmer inner core. Despite the hard inner layer, it's still pretty flexible. The farther down the shaft you go, the more pronounced the veins become. The balls are decently sized, I would have preferred slightly larger ones, but that's personal preference. I don't really like the balls, as they're hard and lumpy. However, he texture of the balls is very realistic. The smell isn't pleasant, but it isn't overwhelming (to me at least) so I'm not really concerned with it. In my experience, the smell on sex toys tends to fade with each cleaning, and by itself over time. If you have a sensitive nose, be wary. Even though I don't plan on using the suction cup, I tested it before reviewing and found that its very strong. It took me a while to pull it off of the surface I stuck it to (a wooden desk, for reference) but it didn't leave any marks, like some suction cups do. I only left it on there for a few minutes though, so if left for longer it might leave a mark. Considering the strength, I'd be careful using it on painted walls and such. I was wondering if I would be able to use this the way I typically do (stuck through the fly of a tight pair of boxers, which has the same effect as a harness) and thanks to the hefty balls and large suction cup, it works just fine. Due to the weight, it hangs down a bit, but that's not really an issue for me. Also, the girth was a bit of an issue when sticking it through the fly, keep this in mind if you use an O-ring harness (note: I haven't tested to see if its compatible with a harness like this, use your own discretion when purchasing) because you might need to get a bigger O-ring for this cock to fit. I haven't used this yet, as my current partner is away at the moment and I don't like being on the receiving end of penetrative sex, but the only issue I foresee is the size. I would strongly suggest using lube with this product. I'm a fan of water-based lubricants, especially with sex toys because silicone-based lube can sometimes degrade the quality of the toy, but I believe you can actually use silicone based lube on toys made from this material, however I'm not 100% sure about that. I also highly recommend using condoms, especially if you plan on using it with multiple partners, it makes cleaning easier too. I'd suggest a bigger condom than usual, but tightness isn't an issue here so feel free to use whatever size you want, as long as its big enough to fit without tearing. For toys, using lubricant-free condoms is probably your best bet, or ones with a water-based lubricant (which is usually harder to find) work well too. I took the time to measure it myself, and this is how it stacks up: Girth- 6.5 inches I measured three different places (just below the head, the middle of the shaft, and around the base) on it and they all came out relatively the same length, with slight differences. Averaged out, it's about 6/7. Insertable length- 6.5 inches I measured directly up from the top of balls to the head, but if you take into account the curve of the shaft it's a little bit longer than that. Size wise, this is definitely bigger than the average penis. The measurements don't do it justice. Seriously, don't underestimate this thing.